See What Happened When I just Stopped Comparing Myself.
I don’t know about you; however, I believe it’s fair to assume that you too are suffering from the depression, anger, and suicidal thoughts that develop when start comparing ourselves with others.
Let me tell you when I became more comfortable, happier, and lighter.
When I don’t compare myself to anyone!
When I saw someone who was ‘better than me’ until a year ago or when I saw someone doing something that I couldn’t do by hiding behind an excuse, I saw myself as one of many negative adjectives that could come to the back of the waist. I started to learn how to deal with this right away and to try to improve.
In fact, while I knew and felt that I had improved myself by doing what I wanted by discovering myself, on the other hand, I could not prevent me from spending my time, my energy, and comparing myself with someone who was thinking about what I could not get behind a defense mechanism.
This was a bit of ‘look at how he is doing this, come on, do it too.’ I have read a lot of people, watched a lot of videos, listened to a lot of conversations (this is my own personal development and repair process) I started to focus on ‘Just Me.’
This was my only life, and I was the only one.
There was only one musician, and what he could do was limited. I learned and internalized that I couldn’t do everything correctly at the same time.
Instead of getting angry with myself by thinking about the negative ones that affect my flow in my life, I focused on the positive ones and actually encouraged myself.
Because nothing was as it seemed and nobody’s living conditions were the same.
Some have plenty of time, some have money.
Some were in a life where they could do whatever they wanted, and some were in a life that they had to deal with.
Why do we consider this treatment appropriate for ourselves as if all our factors are equal when we are going through the flow of life without knowing this?
Now, I am telling me that I like to do this, to think about it, to be like this, not to envy, but to the people with a good heart who envy with a perfect heart.
Now I look at life from a very simple point of view.
I give priority to myself. Now I ask myself for two seconds what I really want, and I care a lot about this part. So instead of doing this brutality that we deem appropriate for us and when we can not imagine doing everything suddenly, I say to ourselves. Just one pot starts by fermenting your yogurt. Start with dreaming of good things.
Start by believing that healing is in you.
Begin by trying to understand what works best for you by returning to the essence. Start your soul with the pursuit of what will be good for your body. Then you already have a look; you’re running.
Do what you can, don’t worry about getting stuck with what you can’t. Somehow you will be doing it in time. You just want to Imagine, Make an effort and Believe in yourself! 🦋